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Are You Sabotaging Your Sales Conversations?

As a business coach, I get a LOT of questions from very diverse business owners.

One of the most frequent questions is this:
“I’m very good at what I do… so why aren’t people hiring me?”

Is this happening with you?

If so, I am going to share with you three of the biggest mistakes people make when they are having an enrollment conversation with potential clients.
(By the way, “enrollment conversation” is another way of saying “initial consultation” or “sales conversation”)

MISTAKE #1 – Promoting your services before your potential client gets clear on what they REALLY want.
The consultation is about your potential clients and their needs, and not about you. So be sure to take a substantial part of your consultation to ask questions to understand you potential client’s needs before you offer solutions.

When you understand their deepest wants and needs - and I mean what’s keeping them up at night - then you’re in a great place to offer your services as a solution.

If you aren’t establishing the “Gap”, you’re going to have a hard time getting hired! The “Gap” is the frustration that potential clients feel about the chasm between where they are now and where they want to go with their life, business, health, web site, etc.

MISTAKE #2 – Trying to solve the potential client’s problem during your initial consultation. The consultation is not the time to help your prospect solve a micro-problem they are currently having.  It’s an opportunity for them to see much greater opportunities for themselves and for their business and to establish you as someone who can help them close the gap.

Here’s why this is a mistake. Often when you give them 1/20th of a solution to their problem, they think they’ve already received the solution from you and go off to implement it on their own – without hiring you.

This is not the best way you can be of service to them, since their problem is only partially solved. And it will certainly not land you the client.

And this isn’t just an issue for coaches – it’s often true whether you are a web designer, business consultant, healer or wellness practitioner, professional organizer, etc.

MISTAKE #3 – Not using a consistent system for your enrollment conversation.
When you’re having a conversation with a potential client about working together, is it something you do spontaneously, without a script or agenda? Does it feel kind of random, and you’re uncertain if your conversation is going to work? You may even feel like the conversation with your potential client is going well, but then they don’t hire you. And you don’t why.

If this is the case, I have to ask you, do you have a “system” that you are using in every sales conversation?

I am not a systematic guy by nature.  In fact, I have often been allergic to systems.

But after a while, I couldn’t deny that when I developed a system for enrolling clients during a one-on-one consultation, used it every time, continually made it better – the results spoke for themselves. My results jumped from a 0% success rate to a place where now 80% of prospective clients hire me.

If you are making one or all of these mistakes in your enrollment consultations, don’t despair!

Just make a conscious effort to change how you’re approaching your clients and holding these conversations.

And consider learning a more systematic approach to having enrollment conversations, such as my “Master of Enrollment” program.
Before you know it you these conversations will flow with ease, and you’ll allow new clients to say “yes” to you.

5 Responses to “Are You Sabotaging Your Sales Conversations?”

  1. terry Says:

    Totally awesome info!!! I need this to assist in breaking through old
    belief conversations that come up when fear and doubt creep in.. To have
    plenty of ammunition to quiet the negative spam pop-ups that float into my thoughts when I’m presenting my services, is very important..
    thanks

  2. Molly Gordon, Self-Employment Coach Says:

    It was wonderful hosting your teleclass for Masters of Enrollment. You delivered so much value to us. I especially loved how you completely dispelled the fears around being sales-y or pushy.

    I hope it is okay to include a link here for folks who may have missed the teleclass. Folks can click HERE for the free recording.

    Thanks again for a terrific learning experience!

  3. Marcia Nedd-Smith Says:

    www.healingtherapies.com my original website with the link to my water website. I enjoy your simplicity and ease of speaking. I did something unusual also. I read 89 page ebook “Life: A One-Year Road Map” in one night. You bring ease of reading to Print. I am looking forward to being coached further with you. Thanks

  4. Loren Fogelman Says:

    I totally agree with each of your tips. Having that first call with someone is important. They are coming to me as the expert and I want to be able to guide them through the process from beginning to end. I have done it with a script and without. I learned the hard way and now have my script ready each and every time I have a first call with someone.

  5. Rhonda Hess Says:

    Thanks for neatly laying this out, Bill. There are several ingrained myths about starting a service business, — one is that you sell what you do. That never work! So if you’re a coach, you try to sell coaching (life, business, wellness, life purpose - whatever). But that’s not what people buy. And what people buy isn’t in YOUR head, it’s in THEIRS — your target market’s heart and head. Make it your 1st order of biz to discover what they really want and Will invest in well to achieve. That’s the start of a potentially thriving and lucrative biz.

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